If I focus my energy into what others are doing,I will run out of energy to do something for myself. You don't need become exactly like the people you look up to.They are for reference sake.Not cheat sheet. You make your own standard with your own strengths and weakness.You become your own unique you.
Don't embrace your weakness.Squeeze it out of you.
Make most of your strengths rather than obsessing over your weaknesses.
Your data may not be wrong,but the model could be.Your sensations could be in perfect sync but your perception may not be so.We really like to question others,but what do we do when it comes to us? Do we object to our own decisions? Do we question our own strengths and weaknesses? Do we try …
Everything happens for a reason.This idea takes away your sense of purpose.It takes away the blame on you.It takes away the fruit of your effort.Because it implies that someone does everything for all so you don't need to do anything for you at all.
If you are concerned about what other people would think of what you do before even you start doing it - then just forget about getting started at all.