What is the best way to grow? With support or without?
When we have support, we put less strain into doing things. We don’t look over our shoulder waiting for obstacles to hit us. We don’t stay on guard because we don’t need to. We know we will be provided by our support
When we don’t have support, we persevere to get ourselves out of chaos. We take leaps and revolutionise the way other think. Though we put our basic survival at risk, we try to keep alive hope to gain better.
Surrounded by reinforced walls, we fail to even think about the cracks, less repair them.
When our world is crumbling we try to gather every last piece. That desperation either becomes despair or a motivation to keep looking for change.
Forgiveness is not forgetting about what has happened, but a promise for a better future which can happen.
Acknowledging differences between people is good.But discriminating is not.Discrimination shows up when we label those differences as superior or inferior.Everyone is different because one person can’t do everything.We fill in for each other where the other cannot.It is about teamwork.How can you discriminate against someone who’s on your team?
You can’t drag someone down without lowering yourself below them.You can’t kick someone down from above without stopping at your own path of growth.If it’s their loss,then it is also you own.That’s what happens in a team.
First look out for career stability than fulfilment of passion.Passion can fuel your desires but not pay your bills.If you can’t afford your risks yet,don’t buy them.Build yourself to the level where they can be easily bought and sold.Identify your threshold.Test it.And put in energy to bring it to the next level.
There’s a tradeoff between acknowledging new ideas and sharing new ideas.Both cannot exist without each other.Our democracy wouldn’t exist without them.If you can’t be tolerant to other people’s ideas,you cannot share your idea freely.You don’t have to accept everything,just learn to respect everyone’s freedom and opinion.Their experience of life has been very different from yours.They weren’t born with an ideology,they chose it along the way due to the circumstances.If their view has a tendency to harm others,then change their circumstances.Trying to change their belief will only lead to resistance.You have to remove corruption from its roots.Because shorenting a plant will only drive it grow further and further for survival.
Everything that exists – good or bad – comes with its own problems and solutions.Either we can keep looking for the best for the rest of our lives,or compromise with the most favourable outcome possible.
Counselling does not only cure mental disturbances but also prevents them in the first place.
People who are the strongest have the most tragic story of their own.
Sharing vulnerabilities creates the deepest form of love in a relationship.
When you hold in your tears it hurts.The pain hurts you from within while testing your limits.When you let go you feel relieved.There is no meaning in holding on to your suffering.Crying is not only for the weak.Those who choose to cry,choose to live with no agony.And I don’t see a more smarter choice than letting go of pain.Isn’t that something we all strive for in the end?