Mistakes sharpen us. They don’t chip away at us. They give us an edge.
To attain your goal keep your fire burning.However small.However hidden.
There are two ways to make change possible – in both cases you need to become ‘big’ relative to the task.
Either you grow your knowledge and skill – become an expert at doing something.
Or you shrink the challenge – you divide your goal into smaller individual attainable actions.
Either way,you become more daunting than the task itself.Do not fear the task.Let the task dread you and follow your way instead.
Once you become capable or believe that you have become capable – your chances of succeeding increase significantly.
Happiness for me is an open garden with beautiful flowers.Flowers do fade away or get crushed though.That’s the inevitability of life and one must be prepared for it.If you want to sustain your beautiful garden – you will have to protect it and tend to it.You will have to face a lot of threats,get some wounds in the process and feel the pain for your dream.The more of it you feel,will either make you more determined to protect something precious to you or force you to give up and watch in terror as you lose everything.If you want peace of mind you will have to tend to your thoughts and behaviour and ward off any stressors out of the way.You can’t remain ignorant and happy at the same time.This may be your reality but certainly not your full world.
Working with the best tools brings efficient results easily.In the same way when you keep your mind and body healthy by eating right and thinking right,you are honing your body which is your tool to achieve your goals.
Sheer hard work is not wrong but it is stressful sometimes.You need to play the game of life smartly if you are to win in the end.Take care of yourself.Love and teach yourself.Don’t hesitate to take a break.
If you are to get the same thing done within the same time limit then try this or you will drastically reduce your whole lifespan and regret that you didn’t live long enough to experience everything.You will fail that’s inevitable.But if you accept that then you are guaranteed to win.
Plan everything.But don’t freak out when things don’t go according to your plan.Just get things done.Worry consumes too much energy and time.Both of which are limited for us.And you know what’s funny? Things don’t get done even if you plan every last detail to the point.It just gets done some or the other way if you persevere.That means,EVERYTHING GETS DONE,BUT NOT EXACTLY THE WAY YOU PLAN.Don’t sweat.Just do what you gotta do.Inspiration,motivation,satisfaction – all these things get spurred by action only.A potato doesn’t do anything.It just sits there.Hence it has got no ambition.No life.(I don’t mean to hurt your feelings potato! I love you!)
This is not a formula for success.It is a formula to face failure.You can only succeed if you accept failure as a part of your life.If you get scared of losing you footing,then how are you gonna climb up forever? Acceptance makes you stronger.Avoidance just brings conflict of identity.It makes you wonder who you really are because you never step out in the game and assess yourself.And if you don’t evaluate yourself,then how you’re going to grow? Isn’t that what we humans,or rather every living being has done since the beginning of time?
When certain ideas come from the most weird and unexpected places and work in perfect consonance – they make the greatest plan ever.
Sometimes when you are trying to draw a big picture,you have to take a step back.
People joke about you because they don’t care about you.
If they don’t care about you,then their opinion shouldn’t matter to you.