Some problems are unsolvable,or at the very least,they do not have one definite solution.But in the pursuit of solving such issues,we sometimes end up solving some unanswered questions we did not intend to solve.I guess there is always a bright side no matter the scale.
There are only two ways to counter a problem: Either you solve it or forget it’s existence,at least for the time being.
First one is a very palpable option! What about the latter? Solving is what everyone of us try to do.But sometimes we need to forget.We cannot do everything all the time,at least alone.Over-stressing doesn’t help you face problems but preparing for stress does.You sometimes need to wait for the right time and opportunity.
Isn’t our education system a great example for it? We don’t teach college level math to a middle schooler – not because they can’t solve it – but because they can’t solve it RIGHT NOW.
If we could solve all of our problems in one day,we wouldn’t have any problems on the next day.But that doesn’t happen,does it? If you can solve something,solve it.If you can’t solve something,prepare for it.
When something bad happens – instead of just punishing who is responsible – we should also eradicate what is responsible.
There are two ways to make change possible – in both cases you need to become ‘big’ relative to the task.
Either you grow your knowledge and skill – become an expert at doing something.
Or you shrink the challenge – you divide your goal into smaller individual attainable actions.
Either way,you become more daunting than the task itself.Do not fear the task.Let the task dread you and follow your way instead.
Once you become capable or believe that you have become capable – your chances of succeeding increase significantly.
Shrink the negative thoughts the shrinker of optimism.
Spread joy to broaden your perspective of happiness.
Whatever your objective is – tackle it the way it tackles you.
We focus on worrying about our problems,rather than experimenting out creative solutions.
Great solutions are nothing more than simple ideas.That’s what makes them so great.
Don’t try over and over with the same method to get an answer out of someone.If they are reluctant then they are just look for another way to be convinced.Don’t try to change them – change yourself – and they will warm up to you.
I am a clean slate in the morning.An operative during the day.A slate scribbled with new content by the night.With so much going inside my mind and around me,I evolve with every second.With so much information to process,how can I stay constant? My thoughts develop everyday,which can be conflicting,but it is the only way to reach the most convincing argument with a common solution.
Either talking to a stranger to explain a concept or talking to a therapist to solve a problem – we break down our issue into organized elements to make others comprehend it and along the way make ourselves understand it even better.
The advantage of going to a therapist over anyone else is that your information remains confidential and when you make a monetary commitment to an activity,you tend to do it more seriously than if it were free.
Therapist don’t tell you what to do.They just direct you,within you,to find the best of you, who would solve your problem.