Everyone NEEDS help whether they WANT it or not. Help means you support the person, not take or give charge of one's life to the other.
A leader should prioritise the group over the individual. Individual needs are difficult to fulfil or sometimes almost impossible to meet. But if we fulfil the demand of the group, it makes a fair balance for every group member. Compromise for greater good leads to greater sense of happiness than selfish stubbornness ever will.
You want to achieve a goal? Surround yourself by people who want to achieve similar goals.Energy is contagious.Their wish will flow through you and your wish will flow through them.This transfer of energy is how you will sustain throughout.
You will become the person you want to be one day,only if you believe that day is today.
As a leader,standing at the top can make your people's issues seem miniscule. Only when you stand beside your people,you can really help them solve their problems.
Masses can be more easily influenced than an individual.Being in a social group creates a pressure to follow the social norm.Led by authority we forget our true selves and become part of the group.It is important to save your identity.That's what makes you sane.That's what makes you human.