There’s no right way to do something. Costs are everywhere whether we see them or not. It doesn’t mean we stop. It means we keep looking and trying to find a better way.
There are two ways to be critical. Positive and negative . Either you criticise to improve the outcome or you criticise to crush one’s self esteem to cause harm.
Plan everything.But don’t freak out when things don’t go according to your plan.Just get things done.Worry consumes too much energy and time.Both of which are limited for us.And you know what’s funny? Things don’t get done even if you plan every last detail to the point.It just gets done some or the other way if you persevere.That means,EVERYTHING GETS DONE,BUT NOT EXACTLY THE WAY YOU PLAN.Don’t sweat.Just do what you gotta do.Inspiration,motivation,satisfaction – all these things get spurred by action only.A potato doesn’t do anything.It just sits there.Hence it has got no ambition.No life.(I don’t mean to hurt your feelings potato! I love you!)
This is not a formula for success.It is a formula to face failure.You can only succeed if you accept failure as a part of your life.If you get scared of losing you footing,then how are you gonna climb up forever? Acceptance makes you stronger.Avoidance just brings conflict of identity.It makes you wonder who you really are because you never step out in the game and assess yourself.And if you don’t evaluate yourself,then how you’re going to grow? Isn’t that what we humans,or rather every living being has done since the beginning of time?
If you want to be the best,then get used to criticism.
You cannot be the number ‘one’ and be loved by all at the same time.