Make most of your strengths rather than obsessing over your weaknesses.
You can’t calm down a storm.You can only calm yourself to face the storm.
How to convince someone about something? By being the best at it.
Not every result is desirable.But that should not stop you from making a judgement or taking an action altogether.
Happiness for me is an open garden with beautiful flowers.Flowers do fade away or get crushed though.That’s the inevitability of life and one must be prepared for it.If you want to sustain your beautiful garden – you will have to protect it and tend to it.You will have to face a lot of threats,get some wounds in the process and feel the pain for your dream.The more of it you feel,will either make you more determined to protect something precious to you or force you to give up and watch in terror as you lose everything.If you want peace of mind you will have to tend to your thoughts and behaviour and ward off any stressors out of the way.You can’t remain ignorant and happy at the same time.This may be your reality but certainly not your full world.
Don’t think twice.You already invested a lot of time when you were thinking the first time.The second time will just exhaust your mental faculty and make yourself doubt you.Not to say you don’t need to proofread.And not to say haste cannot be a waste.If you made a decision first time with every resource available,then that was the best decision.Our resources keep on improving so it may feel like you made a wrong decision when in fact you made the best decisions under the given situation.It’s the doubt in you that kills future creativity.Doubt things around you to update your thinking.
Failure exists to remind you to not ease into success.You experience failure only when you are doing well.It wouldn’t feel like a failure if you were already a failure.Everyone of us is successful in our own way – economically,socially,spiritually,aesthetically,politically,religiously and so on.Failure doesn’t prove that you are a failure.It just proves you failed this time and there’re always new things to try out.Failure is the only way you will enrich your life to maximum potential.If you don’t go through the worst you won’t appreciate the best.Instead of criticizing failure – thank it – to not let you soar up high in the skies and only to forget what lies below it.
I have learned more from my mistakes and that of the others than any other sources of learning and teaching.Doing something the wrong way sometimes sets us on the right way.When we understand what is bad and harmful,we pick out and implement what is good and virtuous.That’s why our evil past and deeds shouldn’t be hidden.They should serve as a reminder of our atrocities and downfalls to teach the future the value of peace and freedom they hold.To teach them greed and divisions will just harm oneself and we should all strive for unity and love.Acceptance is the key not ignorance.Because ignorance of both the good and bad has its own dire consequences.It is only sensible to teach the future generations about our mistakes so that they don’t go through what we have gone through again.Allow them to learn,make their own mistakes,learn again and pass on all the combined knowledge and experience to repeat the cycle.Our failure today will set the path to success tomorrow.
Failure is not a bad thing.Failure makes you hungry.Failure motivates you to achieve high goals by breaking the barriers of highest records.That’s how new records are made right? You won’t work towards something unless driven by motivation.And the more you are beat down,the more motivated you need to become in order to achieve your dream.This can backfire though.Experiencing downfall over and over again can crush one’s willpower.They may not want to get up again because suffering feels more easier than trying.It feels easier to let go than to go on.But you need to remember that you hold the trigger.Whether your attempts fire ahead towards the goal or backfire on you – depends on you.You invented the weapon i.e. your plan.You need to find the right way to execute it.Trial and error will bring either of the two options – either failure or success.Just because you are facing failure over and over doesn’t mean you are taking a step back.In fact,every time you try a new approach you increase your chances of success.The more you try,the more miniscule your failure becomes,bringing you closer to your goal.It’s simple math logically.But a harsh reality.And that is the making of a beautiful future.
Why people prefer virtual world over physical world? Because it is more responsive to our touch and less trickier to understand than actual human emotions.The virtual world is so much more tender and considerate with its words – ‘like’ & ‘friend’ and yet empowering with its words like ‘followers’ & ‘report/spam’ right at a click.What we don’t realize is this escape hatch is the easy way out but not the most gratifying way into breaking down our issues.We don’t want to face the grim reality but live in the happy bubble we made for ourselves that can be popped by anyone,anytime.You don’t wait for warnings in real world.Downfall just happens.And remember your life will roll exactly the same way in virtual world unless you take charge of your own problems.Internet is a tool we use to fulfill our demands.Not the other way around.