Envy

Instead of envying the ‘greener grass’ on the other side,take a look at the person on the other side who is envying your green land.

Learn to appreciate things that are yours.There’s nothing wrong with wanting more or less,it’s just even if you don’t get it,you need to be grateful for what you have.

You may not know it but right now there are some people who aspire to be you or a part of you.Don’t you wanna set a better example by being you and not worrying about what the others do?

We all have our roles to play,whether we like it or not.We can change our roles too,no matter how difficult or easy the change is.Sometimes we get what we want or what we don’t have,other times we don’t get lucky.

You only want more because you feel you deserve more and you feel you deserve more because you’re worth it.Don’t you think we can keep up this value of self-worth in us without letting the external world affect it?

Well-being

With time our physical well being has improved but what about our mental health being?

How can we judge which one is more important to take care of now?

I just have one thing to say: You can take a pill to alleviate physical pain but there exists no pill that gives meaning to your life.

Physical health has become easier to take care of now.So yes,pay attention more to your mental health because it needs your constant love and care.

In the end it is for the individual to decide in what way they want to be happy physically,psychologically or both.

Upbringing

Your child is not your product.It is something entirely different.Don’t use your own accomplishments and failures as a standard for it to achieve or surpass.Listen to what they have to say.Listen to what they want to learn.Listen to what they want to become.Listen to them like you would listen to anyone else.They are not something you own.Your child is not obligated to you or your way of life.It carries within it a life force,dreams and skills of its own.

That child has a life not because it wanted to have one,but because you wanted to create a life.That doesn’t imply that you have a right to dominate or influence it.It will just do more damage than good.

Moment

Working with the best tools brings efficient results easily.In the same way when you keep your mind and body healthy by eating right and thinking right,you are honing your body which is your tool to achieve your goals.

Sheer hard work is not wrong but it is stressful sometimes.You need to play the game of life smartly if you are to win in the end.Take care of yourself.Love and teach yourself.Don’t hesitate to take a break.

If you are to get the same thing done within the same time limit then try this or you will drastically reduce your whole lifespan and regret that you didn’t live long enough to experience everything.You will fail that’s inevitable.But if you accept that then you are guaranteed to win.