A negative thought in mind can only be balanced using a positive thought. You can't avoid negativity, but to counter it, you can always use positive measures. When you scrape your knee or stub your toe, you don't keep deliberately scratch or hit the wound. You tend to it and do your best to heal …
Love yourself first before expect others to love you.
Always ask people where their money comes from because their interests lie there.
The only way to either truly hate or truly love something,is to learn in depth about it.