At some point in your life,you will find yourself to be a victim of ridicule or hatred.
How do you deal with it?
If that hostility is spread by rumours,which you know are not true,then stop caring about the opinion of others.You know the real truth and that is more than enough.If the victim believes that the crime did not happen,then there is no crime scene,right?
Even if the gossip is true,you get to decide your own reality by choosing what to believe in.And you can by all means choose not to consider the opinion of others to build your world.Because in the end,the only person who will stand with you is you,not anyone else.
There are three kinds of people during such crisis: First,the people who don’t care.Second,the people who have too much of free brain to suck in everything they hear and believe in it without fact-checking.And third,the people who will fight for you against the world no matter the odds.
You know what your thoughts are.Other people can’t read your thoughts that’s why you tell it to them.This is the reason you need to think,choose and use your words wisely. Because even if you mean good and don’t use the right words,you’ll make more enemies than well-wishers,sometimes unknowingly – one misinterpretation is enough to turn the world against you.Don’t let that happen.
Natural skill is not a territory marked by a few forever but a head-start for some for the time being.
It means two things:
If you don’t have that natural skill now,you can catch up in time.
If you do have that natural skill and don’t use it now,you will lose it in time.
When completing a task,put in all your energy and focus.
When you can’t,take a step back and close your eyes to conserve your energy and recalibrate your focus.
Unless you recharge your physical and mental faculties,you can’t give your best.
Being half prepared and giving it your all only means that you gave your true half and not everything.
Giving it your all in the end will neither guarantee success nor deny failure.
What it will do is help you realize where you actually belong and which door you should be knocking on.
No matter how much passion you have,how perfect your plans are,how tempting your dream is – It doesn’t make things easy,it just makes them more bearable until you reach your goal.
Have a Plan B not because you’ll fail, but the circumstances will fail you.
If you,yourself and the others are aware about your weaknesses,then there’s nothing left for your enemies to exploit.
The longer you wait,the longer you hope,the longer you expect – the more uncertain situation becomes.
Take charge before before you lose control.
Either scoop up what you deserve or struggle and find meaning in life.
If people judge you based on superficial things like your clothes,college degree or your color,they have too much free time in their life and too much free space in their brains.
Examination should be about learning from your mistakes and improving upon them.
It shouldn’t be a factor on basis of which people judge you.
Neither they about know your circumstances nor they can imagine what you’ve been through.