Guard

Happiness for me is an open garden with beautiful flowers.Flowers do fade away or get crushed though.That’s the inevitability of life and one must be prepared for it.If you want to sustain your beautiful garden – you will have to protect it and tend to it.You will have to face a lot of threats,get some wounds in the process and feel the pain for your dream.The more of it you feel,will either make you more determined to protect something precious to you or force you to give up and watch in terror as you lose everything.If you want peace of mind you will have to tend to your thoughts and behaviour and ward off any stressors out of the way.You can’t remain ignorant and happy at the same time.This may be your reality but certainly not your full world.

Steady

Failure is not a bad thing.Failure makes you hungry.Failure motivates you to achieve high goals by breaking the barriers of highest records.That’s how new records are made right? You won’t work towards something unless driven by motivation.And the more you are beat down,the more motivated you need to become in order to achieve your dream.This can backfire though.Experiencing downfall over and over again can crush one’s willpower.They may not want to get up again because suffering feels more easier than trying.It feels easier to let go than to go on.But you need to remember that you hold the trigger.Whether your attempts fire ahead towards the goal or backfire on you – depends on you.You invented the weapon i.e. your plan.You need to find the right way to execute it.Trial and error will bring either of the two options – either failure or success.Just because you are facing failure over and over doesn’t mean you are taking a step back.In fact,every time you try a new approach you increase your chances of success.The more you try,the more miniscule your failure becomes,bringing you closer to your goal.It’s simple math logically.But a harsh reality.And that is the making of a beautiful future.

Stability

Why people prefer virtual world over physical world? Because it is more responsive to our touch and less trickier to understand than actual human emotions.The virtual world is so much more tender and considerate with its words – ‘like’ & ‘friend’ and yet empowering with its words like ‘followers’ & ‘report/spam’ right at a click.What we don’t realize is this escape hatch is the easy way out but not the most gratifying way into breaking down our issues.We don’t want to face the grim reality but live in the happy bubble we made for ourselves that can be popped by anyone,anytime.You don’t wait for warnings in real world.Downfall just happens.And remember your life will roll exactly the same way in virtual world unless you take charge of your own problems.Internet is a tool we use to fulfill our demands.Not the other way around.

Identify

First look out for career stability than fulfilment of passion.Passion can fuel your desires but not pay your bills.If you can’t afford your risks yet,don’t buy them.Build yourself to the level where they can be easily bought and sold.Identify your threshold.Test it.And put in energy to bring it to the next level.