Don’t blame yourself or others, instead take responsibility. The difference is quite simple: When you blame you treat yourself as a victim, and wait for help to arrive. But when you take responsibility, you change the status quo because you deserve it.
All of us have experienced unfair moments in life, what’s important is that you don’t experience them again, because you deserve more.
It seems very easy to say ‘to be responsible’ it’s certainly not. But it is a far better choice than suffering in silence forever.