An accommodating attitude helps us understand the world better than an expecting attitude.
When we see things for what they truly are, the illusion of how they should be goes away. And we get to see the reality, as we should.
Truth guides us. Illusion strays us from the path. Believing in an illusion feels good, but believing in the truth is liberating. Because in the end, the truth comprises our reality, and illusion, our minds.